My favourite

To be honest, DBSK (동방신기) is the one and only boy band which I really ever liked. In the past I never really liked bands or singers, what I liked were songs. My attachment was only to the songs, either the melody or the lyrics, but never the performer. But DBSK (동방신기) totally had me.

And usually in a group, there will be members who are more talented or more popular. But this group, seem to be very balanced. All are equally talented and popular. Each have their own charm. Also, in such groups, the fans would usually like and support a particular member and put the other members aside, and in extreme cases, may even loath or hate the other members. For (동방신기), nah, never happens. Even myself, personally I really liked all five of them. This will be elaborated in another post.

I have mentioned in the Introduction post, that I first chanced upon them with the song どうして君を好きになってしまったんだろう？2 or 3 years ago. And my favorite at that time were Yunho & Jaejoong. They were equal in terms of who I prefer more. Then as fate had it, I stumbled upon Mirotic. And again, I like Yunho & Jaejoong. I guess I am a very loyal & consistent person. However this round, I have to admit, I like Yunho more. Just that very very very tiny bit more. Yunho is truly a very good dancer. You don't see any laziness in him. His moves are all very clear and defined. Its like he puts in a 100% into every single dance step. Plus with his tall physique, he is a joy to watch when he dances. I watched a lot of different Mirotic performances. Yunho exudes a very manly aura and looks like someone who could protect you, someone whom in tough times will put his arms around you and say "I am here with you, I'll protect you" and you will feel safe. Yes, I want to feel protected.

I also mentioned that I discovered Yunjae while reading YouTube comments. So, I also ended up watching a lot of Yunjae clips. No complains though, since they are both my faves. But soon, my heart swayed towards Jaejoong. And then I re-watch those Mirotic performances, this time focusing on Jaejoong. His moves are clearly not as clear and defined as Yunho. Its almost as if he is lazy, haha. To compare, you could say Yunho's dancing is like a newscaster reading the news, perfect grammar, pronounciation and diction. And Jaejoong will be like someone whispering in your ear in a husky voice and you might miss a word here and there. However, I find that there is something very sexy about the way he dances. Sexy in a very manly way. Very seductive. This is one of the reason, why did I sway towards Jaejoong.

Of course I was also watching variety shows, reading old articles and such. And in the process, I somehow discovered similarity between Jaejoong and me, although he is a guy and I am a girl. Here goes:
* Everyone, even his own members say that he exudes a very cold and distant aura. But when you get to know him, he is actually a warm hearted person. I am also like that. Look very unapproachable and cold. However once they know me, its a different story altogether. People who are close to me knows this. For those who are not, they will never know, because in their eyes, I am forever cold and distant.
* Jaejoong likes to eat cereal with milk. So do I. I sometimes even eat it for dinner. Or randomly.
* When Jaejoong wears hoodie clothes, he almost always puts the hoodie over his head. So do I. Let me just say, being where I am from, this is not common at all.
* Jaejoong likes to cook and clean. So do I. But I suspect he is a better cook T_T than me.
* The way he laughs, his hahahaha. That's how I laugh too. And we do know laughter is quite unique. Of course it can't be so unique that everyone in the world laughs differently, but, well you get the drift. Junsu have his eukyangkyang and I believe Changmin really shakes when he laughs. Also, I think he laughs a lot, and really loudly. I do that too. I don't laugh in a girly girl kind of way although I am quite the girly girl.
* He likes elephant. My favorite stuffed toy, which I still remember to this day, was a blue elephant which I named Jumbo. I think Mummy threw it away as it was too tatty. I was really upset and I missed it till today.
* He keeps things to himself and always think a lot on his own. I do too, and probably that was why this SM lawsuit affected me so much. If you consider that I am not someone who followed them from 2004 till now, that I only really started knowing more about them and learning about the lawsuit in September this year, the effect it had on me is catastrophic.

I can't recall if there are more. But actually you really don't need another person to have a lot of similarities with you, to like them.

More reasons why I like Jaejoong, besides his sexy dance and our similarities. I like his voice. It sounds romantic & soothing in ballads, powerful in rock (heard him sang in their Premium Mini Live), seductive in certain part of certain songs, and his ad libs.

One more reason, from watching all their videos, I feel that he really cares deeply for all his members and takes it upon himself to take care of them. That, I find really attractive.

But seriously, Yunho is not that far away from Jaejoong. I still like Yunho alot. His manliness is still very attractive.

After writing so much about Jaejoong & Yunho, I feel guilty towards the other 3 members, because, I really like all 5 of them. Its just human to choose a favorite or two. Maybe I should write a post, to put down my thoughts on each of them.

But for now, I'll stop. Tomorrow is a working day for me and its a quarter to 1am now. Plus I had Love in the Ice on repeat last night and cried till I fell asleep and end up with a headache when I woke up. The headache is still there.